You may have proven success in your life, but yet you are doubting yourself when it comes to being successful on a different path.
You may have never failed badly before, but the fear of failure can absolutely debilitate you from taking a leap of faith with something you’ve never done before.
Even when you may crave changes and a new direction in your life, these fear demons keep creeping up to create a wall between you and what you know is necessary to start getting closer to your dreams and goals.
In this week’s video blog, I want to help you stop fear from sabotaging your dreams. Watch the video above where I share:
- How to understand the beliefs behind your fears so that you get to the root of what’s causing this fear to be real
- Why the stories that you keep telling yourself and keep listening to are creating your beliefs that either get you to where you want to be, or keep you stuck where you are
- How to play “detective” to feed new evidence to your brain to slowly change how you feel about your darkest fears
- My tips and advice on trumping your fears without years of therapy or negative self talk
- How to expedite your learning and fast track yourself to your big goals (hint: it’s not doing it by yourself)
Your Dreams Are Worth Pursuing
They are why you’ve chosen to be alive.
Every hour and minute of the day, is an opportunity for you to turn it all around. And this will depend on what you choose to fill your time and head doing (and thinking).
When you can create actions to be responsible or seeing a new way of living or working that is more in tune to you as a human being, you are saying:
“I am in control of how I want my life to turn out. If my life isn’t where I want it to go, I am free to discover the missing pieces that can guide my thoughts and actions to feel better”.
What Fears Are You Serious About Letting Go To Be Able to Live Out Your Dreams?
In the comments below, I want you to tell me a #1 fear you are now ready to let go to allow yourself to feel the courage of taking the leap to your dream life.
What is that fear, and what belief do you think is behind the fear (this belief can be about yourself or the world)? And how can you feed new evidence to yourself to help trump and de-bunk that belief to create a new one?
I would love to hear from you below.
To your freedom from your fears, and the start of your tremendous courage to live boldly,
Hi Lydia! Great video again, thank you.
So I’m starting my design business soon but I’ve always traveled far away from my hometown to find a job, I come from a countryside in Poland. I assiosiate living far from my family and in a place I wouldn’t choose to live, with earning money. I have a fear of working from home and living where I want thus. And this was always my dream – to be able to spend more time with my family in my hometown yet still earn good money (I now live abroad). I’m working on that fear though, I will leave my job soon and just have to make it!:)
Thanks for dropping by, and I’m happy to hear that you liked watching the video, Alex 🙂 And congratulations on starting your design business!
It’s absolutely normal to feel fear when we’re about to embark onto change, but I bet a part of you is also excited, yes? 🙂 Sometimes the feeling of fear could just be an emotional hint that things are about to get different, and can also mean that we’re about to grow into bigger versions of ourselves.
The freedom to work for yourself (whether it’s from home or from anywhere) does allow more choices into our lives, and yours seem to be the choice to be able to spend more time with your family and travel if you wanted to. This is a great personal reason to fuel your motivation, and to know that your choices will allow you to live one of your big values of being closer to your family while still making a good living.